Annual Anniversary Questionnaire

September 13, 2018

Yesterday, my husband Bernard and I celebrated our third year of marriage. Those three years feel as though they have flown by, and it is crazy that now we anxiously await the arrival of our son. I love being married.... Continue reading →

Revisiting the No Nuclear Weapons Rule

March 28, 2018

On Easter, last year my husband Bernard and I had a horrible fight. I know, of all holidays on which to have a blow-up fight Easter seems like an odd choice but it cannot always be helped when such escalations... Continue reading →

Can your Spouse be both a Consort and a Comrade?

November 17, 2017

Should your spouse be your best friend? It is a topic that I have noticed popping up lately. Although I have an opinion on this matter, I wanted to examine other people’s views to see if I aligned. Upon reading... Continue reading →

When You Have a Bad Day

October 18, 2017

I had a bad day last week. It started with me reading the news, followed by me looking at social media – another crisis had occurred for everyone to fight over; then it seemed like everything else throughout my day... Continue reading →

September 9, 2007 : Special Anniversary Edition

September 12, 2017

Ten years have come and gone since that day. September 9, 2017, marked a decade that I have called Bernard mine. My boyfriend, my fiancé, my husband, my best friend, my person, my teammate, my counterpart, my love. If I... Continue reading →

Am I Ready to Be A Mom?

August 15, 2017

My last post in the Wives section discussed my feelings surrounding the question of, “When Are You Having Kids?” In that piece, I wrote that two years ago when Bernard and I got married, we were not ready to have... Continue reading →

Can We Please Move The Box?

January 29, 2017

I would like to apologize for skipping a week of blogging. I initially planned to post every Sunday; however, the holidays falling on Sundays this year threw me off. I decided to withhold my blog post for the past week... Continue reading →

Freaking Out and Self- Doubt – It’s Normal

December 12, 2016

The “Wives” section of this blog I will write in real time as I am learning and growing in my role as a wife. I don’t take this role lightly; I very much believe it will be the most important... Continue reading →