Hindsight 20/20

In the movie, ‘When Harry Met Sally‘ starring Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal there is a beautiful ROM-COM quote that Harry (B.Crystal) says, ” When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the...

The Mother-In-Law

The inspiration for this week’s post came to me while standing in a store picking out Mother’s Day cards. I was in search of a mother-in-law Mother’s day card, and I became puzzled by the fact that the store only...

Why Won’t He Commit?

When you type the word commitment into Google search two definitions are provided the first, “the state or quality of being dedicated to a cause, activity, etc.” The second definition Google provides, ” an engagement or obligation that restricts freedom...

No. Nuclear. Weapons

My husband Bernard and I have disputes that quickly escalate. You may be wondering how someone who is in the conflict management profession can have conflicts with her husband at all? Let alone, conflicts that escalate? It is important that...

Vendors, Vendors, Vendors

Vendors are a crucial element to your wedding day. Picking the right vendor can be a lot of pressure on an engaged couple as choosing one that is unqualified or unprofessional could have a detrimental outcome on your experience. Vendors...

The First Fight

The first fight you have as a couple can be formidable. Chances are it wasn’t pretty; you might have said things that neither of you meant, and you may have stopped speaking for a short time. If you came through...